womanthismonth.com | APRIL 2025 PARENTING 47 Teaching Restraint Over Restriction Rather than imposing strict restrictions, consider teaching restraint. It’s about building an alliance, not a battleground. Ask them: “What do you enjoy about gaming?” Often, games fill a need, whether it’s social connection, a sense of accomplishment or an escape from stress. Understanding this need is crucial. For many kids, online friends are their primary social circle. Taking away their console can feel like cutting them off from their support system. Instead, acknowledge the social aspect of gaming and set clear boundaries while assuring them you won’t take their outlet away completely. Honesty and open communication are the cornerstones of this approach. The Importance of Consistency Consistency is key. Empty threats and repeated warnings without follow-through teach kids to ignore your words. It’s tough, but you’ve got to mean what you say. Let them experience the natural consequences of their choices. That’s how they learn responsibility. It’s about building trust and showing them that their actions have real-world implications. Often, gaming masks deeper issues like social anxiety or peer problems. Don’t just yank the controller; introduce new outlets. Extracurricular activities, sports, clubs, anything that sparks their interest. “As you play more games, your social skills atrophy harder.” It’s a fact. Show them there are other ways to connect, to build meaningful relationships. Encouraging New Experiences Be their cheerleader. Ask them what makes them nervous about trying new things. Set achievable goals together. Really getting them involved in the process, and really trying to fix the problems that they have in their life is key. Once they find fulfilling alternatives, the gaming naturally takes a backseat. It’s about helping them build a life that’s rich and rewarding, both on and off the screen. Ultimately, raising a healthy gamer isn’t about eliminating screens; it’s about empowering kids to make mindful choices, to find balance and to thrive in the digital age. Grill Night The Art Hotel & Resort has launched its Grill Night, featuring prime cuts of meat, an unlimited salad bar and mesmerising views of the marina.
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