56 | October 2012 www.womanthismonth.com Parenting Tuition: The good, Bad and Worrying. Tuition, like most things related to your child’s education, is something that should be considered carefully before you sign up. Considering the myriad of options available, this article will help you delve deeper into what you want and need for your child, the difference between the two, and how to ensure you get it. Dr Clare Beckett-McInroy and Simon McInroy Many parents question why tuition is necessary at all. It’s a common misconception that tuition is usually suggested just for children who are having difficulty in school. However, there are a number of other extremely beneficial reasons for getting your child a tutor. [See side bar on page 57.] Some parents feel that their child doesn’t need tuition and that they should ‘play’ as much as possible or that they are doing enough work already. Of course play and other extra-curricular activities are important; yet, the world is becoming more competitive. There also becomes a time when your child may be aware that they are struggling compared to their peers. This is significant because long-term, self-esteem can be adversely affected. Not everyone wishes to choose tuition. If you are, however, ensure you know what your child needs and what you want them to get out of it. It may be that they need a term to ‘catch up’ or revisit things they have found ‘tricky’, or it may be that they need ongoing support and nurturing one-to-one or in a small group. Understanding their unique needs is the key here.
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