26 | December 2011 | woman this month Showcase The Change Starts Now FITNESS FIRST You’ve heard it so many times that you probably say it in your sleep. "Diets don’t work; if you want to lose weight and keep it off, you have to make a lifestyle change." But what does a lifestyle change look or feel like and how do you know when you’ve made one? The way some people talk about it, you’d think there’s some sort of mystical wisdom you get when you “make the change” that tells you when and what to eat, and how to stop worrying about the number on the scale. Does this mean you’ll finally stop craving chocolate and start liking tofu? Fitness First’s Hisem Hagras explains to WTM that the basic difference between a diet mentality and a lifestyle mentality is simply a matter of perspective. Diet versus lifestyle l A diet is all about numbers. The number on the scale and the number of calories you eat and burn. Success is defined in terms of how well you stick to your numbers. A lifestyle change is all about you. It’s about lining up your eating and physical activity with your real goals and desires. Success is defined in terms of how these changes make you feel about yourself. l The diet mentality assumes that reaching a certain weight is the key to finding happiness and solving other problems. That’s why messing up the numbers on any given day can be so upsetting — it means you’ve messed up on just about everything that really matters. The lifestyle approach assumes that being overweight is usually the result of other problems, not the cause. Addressing these problems directly is the best way to solve both the problems themselves and your weight issues. This means focusing on many things, not just the numbers on the scale or the nutrition tracker. l Going on a diet involves an external and temporary change in eating technique. You start counting and measuring, and you stop eating some foods and substitute others, based on the rules of whatever diet plan you are using. If you’re lucky, you may change on the outside — but not on the inside. Once you reach your goal weight, you don’t need the technique anymore, and things gradually go back to “normal.” So does your weight. Making a lifestyle change involves an internal and permanent change in your relationship with food, eating, and physical activity. You recognise that the primary problem isn’t what you eat, or even how much you eat, but how and why you eat. Eating mindlessly and impulsively and using food to manage your emotions and distract yourself from unpleasant thoughts — this is what really needs to change. Learning to take good care of yourself emotionally, physically, and spiritually — so that you don’t want to use eating to solve problems it really can’t — is a lifelong learning process that is constantly changing as your needs and circumstances change. Call 17 564-005
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